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The PeopLE PLEASERS FUNERAL
A 3-Day Ritual to Bury Who You Were and Become Who You're Meant to Be
I spent 20 years on stage saying yes to everyone but myself. Dimming my light. Swallowing my rage. Playing small so others felt comfortable.
Then I held a funeral for that version of me.
I wrote a song named "Toxic Queen" to channel the power I'd been suppressing.
This 3-day journey is the ritual that changed everything – and it's helped hundreds of my listeners finally choose themselves.
If you're exhausted from people-pleasing, this is your permission slip to stop.
Who this is for
You say yes when you mean no
You dim yourself to keep the peace
You're tired of putting everyone else first
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You're ready to feel your rage and set it free
what you'll get
✅ Day 1: Reconnect with your body's wisdom
✅ Day 2: Release your rage safely and powerfully
✅ Day 3: Build boundaries that invite real connection
✅ BONUS: Behind the scenes of "Toxic Queen" + full shadow meditation
✅ The Funeral Ritual to lay your people-pleaser to rest
- £10
The People Pleasers Funeral - a 3 day journey with Sera Lilith Gold
- Course
- 10 Lessons
Jen
"This transformed me in so many ways. I used to get so drained trying to please people all the time. Now - its more about me and what I genuinely can offer. My relationships feel so different!"
Alison
"I don't think I knew quite how much I needed this, but I followed an inkling. And WOW. I feel so strong. Thank you for creating space for this work"
Deanne
"I cried and cried on that first day. And by the last day - utterly transformed. Its a real edge for me, this work, but I am learning so much"
Contents
Day 1 - Initiation
Reconnect with your body's wisdom (finally FEEL when your boundaries are crossed)
Feel it in your body. This isn't about understanding boundaries intellectually – it's about knowing when they've been crossed. A guided journey to reconnect with the wisdom your body has been screaming at you all along.
Day 2 - Feel your rage
Release your rage (safely, powerfully, unapologetically)
What happens when you stop swallowing your rage? When you finally let it out? This is where we get raw, messy, and unapologetically alive. Bring a big fluffy pillow for this section. You're gonna need it!
Day 3 - A boundary is an invitation to connect
Build boundaries that invite real connection
Boundaries aren't walls – they're doorways to deeper connection. Discover how to choose relationships that feel aligned, safe, and real... without shutting everyone out or letting everyone in.
Bonus: The Birth of "Toxic Queen" - From Shadow to Song
Behind the scenes of "Toxic Queen" + the full shadow meditation
Go behind the scenes of one of my most powerful tracks. Discover how personal rage, betrayal, and boundary-breaking became the raw material for transformation – and music.
BONUS: 'Toxic Queen' Shadow Work Meditation Journey
Many of you may have found this journey first and it led you here - but I wanted to include it here for you incase you didn't!
A powerful energy release shadow journey that uses my song 'Toxic Queen' and takes you deep
The Funeral Ritual
The Funeral Ritual: Lay your people-pleaser to rest FOR REAL
We're laying your people pleaser to rest. This isn't symbolic - this is for real. A ritual to honour who you've been, grieve what you're releasing, and step into who you're becoming. (Bring tissues. And maybe something to burn.)
Final Thoughts - Ready to go deeper?
This is just the beginning. A glimpse into what's possible when you keep choosing yourself. Where do you go from here? Let's talk about it.
FAQ section
Frequently asked questions
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Do I need to be spiritual or 'woo-woo' to do this?
Nope. This is raw, real shadow work – not fluffy affirmations. If you're tired of people-pleasing and ready to feel your rage, you're ready for this.
I'm not a musician – is this still for me?
Absolutely. This journey is for anyone who's exhausted from saying yes when they mean no. The music is medicine, but you don't need to be musical to experience the transformation.
What if I'm not ready to feel my rage?
That fear? That's exactly why you need this. We create a safe container for you to release what you've been swallowing. You don't have to do it alone.
How much time does this take?
It's a 3-day journey, but you can move at your own pace and take longer if needed. Each day has guided meditations and practices – plan for 30-60 minutes per day, maybe a little more depending on how much you like to journal!
Is this a live workshop or pre-recorded?
Pre-recorded, so you can do it whenever you're ready. Access it immediately and keep it forever.
What if I've already done work on this before?
This isn't your typical inner work. This is a FUNERAL and deep shadow work – a ritual to actually lay your people-pleaser to rest. If you're still dimming yourself, you need this. Also - inner work is filled with layers so please don't beat yourself up if this is taking a lot of work to shift - we are going very deep here
Can I do this if I'm in a relationship/have kids/live with people?
YES but I'd advise some privacy for the rituals - you'll want some space to really let yourself release
Why is it only £10?
Because this is my way of making transformation accessible and giving an intro to my work. Don't let the price fool you – this journey is powerful. The invitation is to spend only £10, but show up as if you've spent £1000!